Is it a good idea?
When I think about interventions I think about ‘troubled’ people. People of whom have problems of which effect the ones they love.
It’s a shame when you see someone you love go turn the wrong way in life. It makes you want to turn them back around, help them, put them on the right track. When 2 friends of whom you love separate it makes things a lot harder. You start hanging out with one friend in hopes that the other does not get jealous or mad and the same with the other friend.
But then you think…this is the choice they have made. We are young adults now making our own decisions in life now and they have chosen to follow their own paths disregarding the other in their life. I think just because bad things happen does not mean they are bad people.
But am I truly a friend if I lie back and just expect things to turn out ok. Theres so much one can do but if no effort is received from neither one of them, or if one shows effort and the other does not…then what is the point? I should respect their wants and wishes….right? orrrr no? Life just gets a little bit more complicated when your closest friends disperse. More arguing, more complications.
The fact of having an intervention would be good so everyone’s voice can be heard. But is it fair for the ones that do not want the friendship?
Friendships, one of the relationships in life that you should be able to count on however they too can disappoint you.